tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post3355806697218123075..comments2024-03-29T04:06:37.402-07:00Comments on Had Enough Therapy?: Don't Be So Hard on YourselfStuart Schneidermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-75714995347781927012018-05-29T18:47:43.381-07:002018-05-29T18:47:43.381-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Ares Olympushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09726811306826601686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-80091579268904583112018-05-29T09:21:32.861-07:002018-05-29T09:21:32.861-07:00I'd say that what's often missing, and wha...I'd say that what's often missing, and what self-compassion tries to remedy in a round-a-bout way, is the feeling of lack of agency on the part of many people when it comes to correcting mistakes. I think this comes not from a lack of but an excess of shame which builds a desire to avoid doing anything that might express a recognition that we acted improperly. Breaking the cycle of suppressing the recognition of error and avoiding correction by sublimating shame into the sequence of guilt-repentance-restitution-forgiveness is the key to actually moving forward.Christopher Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00396671757183163171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-20157923028587877172018-05-29T08:33:34.217-07:002018-05-29T08:33:34.217-07:00Ya gotta get ON with your life. Navel-gazing does...Ya gotta get ON with your life. Navel-gazing doesn't help.Sam L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00996809377798862214noreply@blogger.com