tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post4521687988299276821..comments2024-03-26T06:17:49.527-07:00Comments on Had Enough Therapy?: His Cheating HeartStuart Schneidermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-13990028502838275132011-06-12T15:46:10.000-07:002011-06-12T15:46:10.000-07:00Good point... it would obviously be much more diff...Good point... it would obviously be much more difficult if they were married... which is a good reason to be able to see the red flags earlier, not later, in a relationship.<br /><br />I am happy you reminded us about the vow to forsake all others... let's hope more people start taking their vows seriously.<br /><br />I think that she, as a wife, would have the right to demand that he cease and desist from flirting with the other woman... but I doubt that he would agree. If he did agree I would not even trust him.Stuart Schneidermanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-46312064760765557662011-06-11T14:24:29.830-07:002011-06-11T14:24:29.830-07:00Being old fashioned and still married to my first ...Being old fashioned and still married to my first wife (faithfully), I'm not quite sure what the rules are for non-marital sexual relationships. Part of me says that if people no longer want to be bothered with traditional committments than they should expect the worst. Speaking as a married man, the wife should be the queen of his heart and has priority over mothers, other relatives and "best female friends" (whatever they are). As a girlfriend, her best option may be to just leave as you recommended as it is not likely that this guy will ever "get it" about committed relationships. If she were his wife, she has every right to demand that he terminate his other relationship because if I remember correctly, the old fashioned vows did include "forsaking all others". If people want to choose a more non-traditional lifestyle, they need to be aware that it's not all that great.Jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04779989953563193520noreply@blogger.com