tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post5788866424957618034..comments2024-03-29T04:06:37.402-07:00Comments on Had Enough Therapy?: Another Sexual PredatorStuart Schneidermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-50580379053751744622018-08-26T17:11:53.391-07:002018-08-26T17:11:53.391-07:00dtrumpet, all I remember of my 9th grade teacher w...dtrumpet, all I remember of my 9th grade teacher was that she was young, but not if she was or was not attractive. I vass a shy boy.Sam L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00996809377798862214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-13621971313693601142018-08-26T09:38:20.999-07:002018-08-26T09:38:20.999-07:00I think it's new. I could be wrong, but when I...I think it's new. I could be wrong, but when I was growing up female high school teachers were not hooking up with underage boys. True, there were college teachers of both sexes who had affairs with students... most often male professors with female students... but that normally occurred after courses had ended. In the old days, girls had separate dorms and strict rules about when they had to be in their dorm rooms. Clearly, that restricted the possibilities for bad behavior.Stuart Schneidermanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-62520000889960277302018-08-26T09:05:35.619-07:002018-08-26T09:05:35.619-07:00I know from my past experience as a psych tech wor...I know from my past experience as a psych tech working evenings while I was going to Seminary, that the "Victims" sometimes provoke these sexual events knowingly and enthusiatically. Not all the time by any means but sometimes. Often then, they are incredibly naive about what was going to happen to them. There are more than a few Lolita's out there including young Don Juans. Were much of this Teacher/pupil sex thing legalized you would see much more of it. Being 67, I am stunned by all this. I never heard of anything like this as a kid growing up. My own opinion is this reflects a stunning change in values, sexually. I don't think this will improve. My guess is, at some point, most of the constraints will fade away. I hope I'm wrong. But kids are growing up watching sex tapes of famous people and hearing the exploits of music icons, sometimes on film and they are envious. There is alot of social conditioning going on that the public is allowing that never would have happened 30 years ago. But out of this I do have a question for you. Is this actually something new or is it just becoming more visible? I know for a fact that the prior generation engaged in quite a bit of hanky panky behind closed doors that was never spoken of. Kansas Scouthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15744438882831933314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-36989446733521442682018-08-26T05:47:38.020-07:002018-08-26T05:47:38.020-07:00Sam L,
There must have been a thing with English ...Sam L,<br /><br />There must have been a thing with English teachers. I had one that was very attractive and did not have a problems with being sexually enticing? 1960 One of the few classes I paid a bit of attention.<br />Whitney is right. I would add that the fact of being used possibly will lead to using themselves. It is the sex that matters and not the person. This is not a zero sum game.<br /><br />dtrumpetAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-20305979719487712082018-08-25T13:37:05.410-07:002018-08-25T13:37:05.410-07:00Back in the hell raisin 70's there was a high ...Back in the hell raisin 70's there was a high school teacher dating/marrying a senior where I went to school. Another student friend of mine got into, erm, co-existed with a beautiful 24 year old school secretary and made no effort to hide it. We had a small contingent of younger hot teachers who had no problem getting a "rise" from the boy side of the student body....Leo Gnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-67258205635637848052018-08-25T09:35:39.190-07:002018-08-25T09:35:39.190-07:00It's been a long time since I was in high scho...It's been a long time since I was in high school, and my yearbooks are in storage, but I can't remember any young, attractive teachers. Now I did have an English teacher in 9th grade who'd been taught by my 7th-grade English teacher, but I don't remember her very well, these many years later.Sam L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00996809377798862214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-66803433581351450162018-08-25T05:57:48.853-07:002018-08-25T05:57:48.853-07:00His real trauma is going to come later, it could b...His real trauma is going to come later, it could be years or decades. But it will come. It will be when he realizes that his youthful indiscretion destroyed someone's life. That guilt will eat at him and it won't matter that it's the states doingwhitneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01339343160301118530noreply@blogger.com