tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post8738077369437624266..comments2024-03-26T06:17:49.527-07:00Comments on Had Enough Therapy?: Leaning In Is Bad For WomenStuart Schneidermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-50357535367272883912015-05-18T05:28:28.236-07:002015-05-18T05:28:28.236-07:00One has to love Harold Bloom.
http://althouse.blo...One has to love Harold Bloom.<br /><br />http://althouse.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-pseudo-feminists-pseudo-marxists.html<br /><br />If one really wants to know how this all ties together:<br /><br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UhugUzUuPkEDennishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14962996070458991675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-15492378873111384612015-05-17T06:24:24.563-07:002015-05-17T06:24:24.563-07:00Leaning in is not going to help ameliorate all the...Leaning in is not going to help ameliorate all the damage feminism has done to women. http://nypost.com/2015/05/14/why-new-york-women-wish-they-lived-in-the-mad-men-era/<br /><br />Even in NYC where the average single woman has slept with 18 men there is this desire to blame others and take no responsibility for their own actions. I am not sure that this is not training men to see them as throw away items. Why have respect for someone who seems to have little or no respect for themselves?<br />I realize that feminism teaches that women should be like the stereotypical image they have of men. The surprise here is that most men start out immaturely thinking that they are going have sex with a goodly number of women, but reality sets in when they, used to, meet so many nice women who demonstrate a self respect for themselves and a respect for their male counterparts. Even in sex there is a place where a far more meaningful place can be attained, but that requires respect which seems to be lost in an emphasis on animalistic behavior.<br />As I have stated before feminism has create the world most men, especially immature men and also immature women, thought they want and now find they don't. What women wants was never what women thought they wanted.<br />Success almost always depends on how hard one wants to work for it and what one is willing to give up in order to get it. This applies to women as well as men. Perpetuating a "victim" status is not going to get the respect a self actuated person will receive.<br />One day a significant number of people are going to recognize the singular importance of the word RESPECT.. It is the key to a healthy, happy and well lived life.Dennishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14962996070458991675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-33581386623908306772015-05-17T05:51:39.859-07:002015-05-17T05:51:39.859-07:00During the playoffs, the NBA has run these bizarre...During the playoffs, the NBA has run these bizarre ads featuring some of the league's best players pleading with viewer's to "lean in for women". I don't know what it means, and I doubt many people do. Seems like a wasted opportunity. Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-47450239796859223262015-05-16T17:16:34.803-07:002015-05-16T17:16:34.803-07:00There is no iron rule in anything.
Leaning In ca...There is no iron rule in anything. <br /><br />Leaning In can work if you got leverage. <br /><br />If not, don't. <br /><br />It's like acting smart works if you have wits. If not, you'll just look like a fool. <br /><br />It's like acting macho works if you're tough. If not, you'll just pick a fight and lose. <br /><br />So, if you're gonna lean in, make sure you have the talent that make you invaluable. <br />If not, they'll just see you as a pest and get rid of you. <br /><br />Know your leverage before you do anything. priss rulesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-89684734811964785212015-05-16T07:55:41.544-07:002015-05-16T07:55:41.544-07:00Well, all is good as long as you remember there...Well, all is good as long as you remember there's a bell curve going on here, and as well we can ask how many women want to be iron ladies after all?<br /><br />But it does remind me of the divergent stress response theories:<br />1. Fight and Flight<br />2. Tend and befriend<br />https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tend_and_befriend<br /><br />So maybe its not just the Warrior vs Worries BUT also Cowards vs Caretakers? At least the letters match.<br /><br />And if we say "Worrier" is the feminine weakness, and cowardice can be the masculine weakness, right?<br /><br />So we can imagine a nice diamond shaped diagram. We'll put Coward at home-plate, and Warrior at 2nd base, both on the straight and narrow linear path the masculine likes. <br /><br />Then I'll put Caretaker can be on first base (toward right field), and Worrier on third base (towards left field), as opposite lateral directions to "lean" for the feminine, but no fainting please!<br /><br />Maybe I'll write a book about this great new theory someday, but I hope someone else does, since I'll probably think of a new fun theory tomorrow and I'll never come back to it.<br />Ares Olympushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09726811306826601686noreply@blogger.com