tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post1782878115039230272..comments2024-03-29T04:06:37.402-07:00Comments on Had Enough Therapy?: Their House, Their RulesStuart Schneidermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-12462308429026801112020-09-30T13:04:42.909-07:002020-09-30T13:04:42.909-07:00My mother is religious/old fashioned and forbade m...My mother is religious/old fashioned and forbade my sister and her bf from sleeping together when visiting. Everyone thought my mother was stupid but she didn't care. It is useless to argue with a religious person. They don't care how old you are. The only alternatives are to find a different place to stay or get married.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-9171041193052206802020-09-29T11:15:21.421-07:002020-09-29T11:15:21.421-07:00Ahhh, but Sam L., a wife of 25 is a different thin...Ahhh, but Sam L., a wife of 25 is a different thing from a wife of 40. <br /> <br />As for childhood problems with an older male parent,<br /><a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2566050/" rel="nofollow">Uk study</a>urbane legendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12699110758399432397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-45994482085354933152020-09-29T10:04:10.082-07:002020-09-29T10:04:10.082-07:00u.l.,forty is NOT too late to marry and have child...u.l.,forty is NOT too late to marry and have children. I got married at 37 (wife 25).? A friend of my mother's had 6 children, every 4 years.<br /><br />Still, the question I have is why they have not gotten married? How long have they been together? Do they WANT to have children? Or, is it a lack of commitment?Sam L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00996809377798862214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-53327069533438322352020-09-29T09:27:13.093-07:002020-09-29T09:27:13.093-07:00The parents are certainly within their rights but ...The parents are certainly within their rights but they are actually tryin g to use their "power" to force someone to do something. IMHO if I were the young lady I simply would not go to family gatherings. I think this is what the parents are trying to force so let them have it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-36623299498036926912020-09-29T08:54:08.091-07:002020-09-29T08:54:08.091-07:00This says a lot about the boyfriend. He's stil...This says a lot about the boyfriend. He's still letting Mommy and Daddy mess with his relationships. The demand for separate bedrooms is a passive aggressive move against this "immoral woman" who is soiling their son. Smiling faces and courtesy can conceal something entirely different behind the masks. I think this is just another way of saying what you wrote here. Kansas Scouthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15744438882831933314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-75178492117416387082020-09-29T07:27:53.446-07:002020-09-29T07:27:53.446-07:00Rob should have already told her forcefully, "...Rob should have already told her forcefully, " I won't do that, and you are wrong to ask. " But he isn't man enough. There have to be other areas where he doesn't stand up to her.<br /> <br />They are too old to have children. Children require a great deal of energy that 40 year-olds are beginning to lose. A child with special needs, such as ADHD, even more. They aren't serious about children, anyway, if in four years they can't settle the marriage question. How long would it take to decide on children?urbane legendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12699110758399432397noreply@blogger.com