tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post4788397500710162387..comments2024-03-29T04:06:37.402-07:00Comments on Had Enough Therapy?: She's Not Down with Casual SexStuart Schneidermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-5221972348648003132019-05-16T03:16:30.494-07:002019-05-16T03:16:30.494-07:00Tammly
There is a converse aspect to this story, ...Tammly<br /><br />There is a converse aspect to this story, that is men who find (if they are unlucky in whom they meet), that women want them purely as companions, providers and protectors, but do not care about their feelings or even that they possess any and are not interested in them as people. This latter is an argument often put by women towards unsatisfactory male partners, even after many years of marriage and family life but applies equally, I have experienced the other way round. I have, in my youth, been told that a great sex life and kindness in a man is 'not enough' (the terms alpha and beta male had not then been invented), but that was very much the sentiment.<br />Personally, I have never gone in for casual sex; but I often wonder in old age why not? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-16342981590311015192019-05-15T19:27:49.088-07:002019-05-15T19:27:49.088-07:00Try a church, dear girl. But you’d probably go Uni...Try a church, dear girl. But you’d probably go Unitarian or Episcopalian and find a disappointment. In the interim, keep having casual sex, I think you’re beginning to get the hang of it. It takes time. UbuMaccabeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00237833458790876775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-13588421136826989832019-05-15T19:03:35.009-07:002019-05-15T19:03:35.009-07:00From the point of view of the men, large numbers a...From the point of view of the men, large numbers are sussing onto a movement called men going their own way, MGTOW. There is a reddit "r/mgtow" if you're interested. It's enlightening on how men are responding to consequences of feminism and women's behaviour in general. They still appreciate a genuine lady but they are essentially unicorns in this day.<br /><br />The general idea is seeing women for what they really are and living your own life. Some men decide to forego sex entirely, monk mode it's called, some still keep casual sexual relationships but no attachments whatsoever. The focus in life in physical health, career, finances and self improvement.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-69638521366056692182019-05-15T13:02:28.670-07:002019-05-15T13:02:28.670-07:00There is no power or freedom,
without taking resp...There is no power or freedom, <br />without taking responsibility.<br />Does Polly know?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-4857669761509009922019-05-15T10:54:06.428-07:002019-05-15T10:54:06.428-07:00Economists have a phrase "revealed preference...Economists have a phrase "revealed preference" - which I take as: watch their actions, not their words. Too many women seem to want to spend their best years on a chain of alphas, followed by casually replaced beta providers. I figure the ones my age who were actually interested in life-long committed relationships with guys they respect all got married in their early 20s and made it work.<br /><br /> Women still on the market either enjoy the shopping too much, or their marriage didn't work out - most likely either because they felt entitled to make their beta mate put up with too much, or they chose an ahole(and seem likely to snag a beta, until the next hot ahole comes along). <br /><br /> Women are mostly very nice people, and mean well, but I think they are perhaps too prone to believe the lies we have all been propagandized with - casual sex has got to sound extra attractive to the gender that can get laid any time they want, and the welfare and divorce rackets add a too-attractive safety net. <br /><br /> People will tend to believe that which profits or flatters them, and provides someone else to blame. Feminist hostility provides too many excuses for mistreating males. I am very leery of involvement with any who seem to have un-actualized hostility - too often it becomes actual. <br /><br /> Anyone else notice how many women seemed very angry after Hillary's defeat? I think Hillary would've done to gender relations what Ohole did for race relations, and that rash of anger was just a small taste.jfmorishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00958534016660980260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-52750870336043307442019-05-15T08:41:55.296-07:002019-05-15T08:41:55.296-07:00It's true. Women's Choice has created a po...It's true. Women's Choice has created a polygamous system. Talk about unintended consequences!whitneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01339343160301118530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-13958891354864721812019-05-15T07:10:49.765-07:002019-05-15T07:10:49.765-07:00The notion that feminism has been a great deal for...The notion that feminism has been a great deal for men, who now get lots of access to "liberated" women at no cost has long been a tired, worn out trope at least as far back as Midge Decter's "The New Chastity" back in 1972. <br /><br />The real truth is that, even in our current so-called "sex recession", women have been getting it on just as much as ever. The difference is that they've been doing so with fewer and fewer men. Those lucky alpha males are the beneficiaries, while the rest of us betas and lower not only have to do without, but are rendered criminals for our efforts, and squeezed out of lucrative jobs in preference for women.370H55Vnoreply@blogger.com