tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post5447372988502754251..comments2024-03-29T04:06:37.402-07:00Comments on Had Enough Therapy?: What Can We Learn from Porn?Stuart Schneidermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-59392362551178552011-08-18T01:57:42.725-07:002011-08-18T01:57:42.725-07:00Oh my god, there's so much useful info above!Oh my god, there's so much useful info above!www.nonsoloescort.comhttp://www.nonsoloescort.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-57164533258795325592011-01-12T18:08:17.435-08:002011-01-12T18:08:17.435-08:00One dimension I'd like to see explored by Dr. ...One dimension I'd like to see explored by Dr. Schneiderman is why women perform in porn, and increasingly, amateur porn. My take is that these women are validated by being sex objects. It is a thrill for them, and likely linked in some fashion to the goupie phenomenon. But in my own experience, there are a surprising number of smart, attractive women with validation issues, and sexuality/porn is one outlet (not the only one) whereby they seek a validation that is apparently missing in their lives.Rogue Malenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-62699604285423223102011-01-09T06:24:11.684-08:002011-01-09T06:24:11.684-08:00I too am intrigued by Robert Mitchell's sugges...I too am intrigued by Robert Mitchell's suggestion that, in fact, if you count romance novels as erotic stimulation, then one might say that women buy an awful lot of it.<br /><br />And as Chuck notes, women are more mental and men more visual. But women are also more aural-- they are more interested in voices, too. <br /><br />Now, the irony in the current situation is that the men who use online porn are mostly not paying for it... I assume... while women who buy romance novels do pay for them.<br /><br />In the ancient Greek, the word "porne" meant prostitute, while "graphos" meant writing.<br /><br />While women will pay a lot for mental intimacy... perhaps because they are not getting it from men... it is relatively rare for a woman to pay for sex. I'm not, of course, saying that it doesn't happen, but it happens far less often than does its opposite... men paying for sex.Stuart Schneidermanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-54029858638865672392011-01-08T12:39:53.175-08:002011-01-08T12:39:53.175-08:00TO: All
RE: Speaking about....
....'sex' ...TO: All<br />RE: Speaking about....<br /><br />....'sex' without 'women'....<br /><br />NOW we have <a href="http://www.breitbart.com/article.php?id=D9KKB03O0&show_article=1" title="Portuguese TV star slain, castrated at hotel" rel="nofollow"><b>THIS</b></a>!<br /><br />How...uh....'creative' can you get?<br /><br />Regards,<br /><br />Chuck(le)<br />[The Truth will out....not that 'progressives' will like it.]<br /><br />P.S. Maybe we need to file a FOIA with the people who did that study nearly 20 years ago. Might provide some insight into 'male' sexuality.....Chuck Peltohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00407516830005550495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-89806520964106492512011-01-08T10:54:30.890-08:002011-01-08T10:54:30.890-08:00P.S. Maybe....
....it's time for such an exte...P.S. Maybe....<br /><br />....it's time for such an extensive study of American Female Sexuality. However, I doubt if the abortion industry would appreciate the results being published.Chuck Peltohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00407516830005550495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-54945727338338974732011-01-08T10:20:35.854-08:002011-01-08T10:20:35.854-08:00TO: Dr. Schneiderman
RE: Studies in 'Porn'...TO: Dr. Schneiderman<br />RE: Studies in 'Porn'....<br /><br /><i>Why not say that pornography shows us what the way male sexuality functions when women are absent, but that the truth of male sexual behavior lies in what happens when real women are present.</i> -- Stuart Schneiderman<br /><br />About 20 years ago—MY GOD!!!!....how time flies—our rich Uncle Sam funded research into American Male Sexuality. A couple of million went into what was touted as the most extensive such study in national history.<br /><br />The 'results'—abridged, as far as I can discern—were published in Family Planning Perspectives. It's from the people who operate abortion mills. Check out their Volume 25, Number 2, March/April 1993, to see the initial article.<br /><br />They have all KINDS of data on heterosexual male activity. But hardly anything as detailed relating to homosexual male activity. <br /><br />I called them up about that. They refused to provide any information short of a federal Freedom of Information Act suit. But their 'reluctance' was more than enough of an 'indicator' to me.<br /><br />Regards,<br /><br />Chuck(le)<br />[The Truth will out....]Chuck Peltohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00407516830005550495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-49747442651401783502011-01-08T09:59:33.120-08:002011-01-08T09:59:33.120-08:00TO: Robert Mitchell, Jr.
RE: Bodice Rippers
I thi...TO: Robert Mitchell, Jr.<br />RE: Bodice Rippers<br /><br /><i>I think women actually buy more porn then men. Look at the sales and resales of "Romance Novels".</i> -- Bob<br /><br />Good point. And it supports the idea that women are more 'mental' about it as men are. Whereas men are more likely to be 'visual' about it. <br /><br />What was it someone said....<br /><br /><b>You think intercourse is a private act; it's not, it's a social act. Men are sexually predatory in life and women are sexually manipulative.</b> -- Andrea Dworkin<br /><br />This correlates well with that understanding.<br /><br />Regards,<br /><br />Chuck(le)<br />[ When two individuals come together and leave their gender outside the bedroom door, then they make love. -- Andrea DworkinChuck Peltohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00407516830005550495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-57610318666348304932011-01-08T09:56:09.284-08:002011-01-08T09:56:09.284-08:00TO: Dennis
RE: You....
He stated that in the not ...TO: Dennis<br />RE: You....<br /><br /><i>He stated that in the not too distant future that the jar would become empty and stay that way. I thought he was crazy, but alas he was not.</i> -- Dennis<br /><br />....have my sympathy. And, at the current rate, I guess I'll live to be around 200 before I see the beans 'disappear', entirely.<br /><br />Maybe the good doctor can provide a thread where we can discuss this sort of happenstance in more detail. [Note: Personally speaking, I suspect that an abiding 'Faith' has EVERYTHING to do with it.]<br /><br />This thread is more interested in 'porn'. That's something we don't have around here. We don't 'need' it.<br /><br />Regards,<br /><br />Chuck(le)<br />[Who can find a virtuous wife. Her worth is greater than rubies. -- Proverbs 31]<br /><br />P.S. As I was saying about 'cups'.....<br /><br />P.S. Doc....<br /><br />....I'm again reminded of how I've been 'blessed'.....Chuck Peltohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00407516830005550495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-34751406921376017422011-01-08T09:50:44.623-08:002011-01-08T09:50:44.623-08:00TO: Dr. Schneiderman
RE: In That Case....
Don'...TO: Dr. Schneiderman<br />RE: In That Case....<br /><br /><i>Don't the exceptions prove the rule...</i> -- Stuart Schneiderman<br /><br />....I thank God for all the blessings He bestowed on me since I became a REAL christian.<br /><br />Regards,<br /><br />Chuck(le)<br />[My cup runneth over....]<br /><br />P.S. Mind the spillage.....Chuck Peltohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00407516830005550495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-18184080796279069912011-01-08T08:29:19.582-08:002011-01-08T08:29:19.582-08:00I think women actually buy more porn then men. Lo...I think women actually buy more porn then men. Look at the sales and resales of "Romance Novels". Sure are a lot of "none consensual moments" in them. What does that tell us about female sexuality?Robert Mitchell Jr.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-29087818482582721082011-01-08T04:49:06.898-08:002011-01-08T04:49:06.898-08:00Had a married man tell me before I got married som...Had a married man tell me before I got married some almost 50 years ago to get a big glass bottle. Every time I had sex I was to put a bean in it. Say if one had sex five times in a day one would put five beans in the jar for that day. The only time you would remove a bean is if you did not have sex on a given day.<br />He stated that in the not too distant future that the jar would become empty and stay that way. I thought he was crazy, but alas he was not. Life is full of challenges that put both partners in a marriage under considerable stress. It has little to do with loving each other.<br />If one is to look at any studies on this Stuart is right.Dennisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-56791355830071390292011-01-08T04:22:32.136-08:002011-01-08T04:22:32.136-08:00Don't the exceptions prove the rule...Don't the exceptions prove the rule...Stuart Schneidermanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-26977609135678212882011-01-07T14:52:49.983-08:002011-01-07T14:52:49.983-08:00TO: Dr. Schneiderman
RE: Well....
As we all know,...TO: Dr. Schneiderman<br />RE: Well....<br /><br /><i>As we all know, in a marriage a man is going to get less sex than he wants and a woman is going to get more sex than [s]he wants.</i> -- Stuart Schneiderman<br /><br />....I-I-I-I-I wouldn't be too sure about thaaaat.<br /><br />Regards,<br /><br />Chuck(le)<br />[Instant sex will never be better than the kind you have to peel and cook.]Chuck Peltohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00407516830005550495noreply@blogger.com