tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post8604586688280134105..comments2024-03-26T06:17:49.527-07:00Comments on Had Enough Therapy?: Fellow FeelingStuart Schneidermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-38694471828697764342014-07-29T07:26:21.283-07:002014-07-29T07:26:21.283-07:00"nice" soft criticism doesn't cause ..."nice" soft criticism doesn't cause anyone to change behavior ... without rude and caustic criticism we'd be a bunch of average performers ... steel is not forged from love taps ... The Dark Lordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02235966436741864018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-54103767155785393752014-07-28T13:53:07.835-07:002014-07-28T13:53:07.835-07:00Very nice.
The "vulnerable" quadrant se...Very nice.<br /><br />The "vulnerable" quadrant seems the easiest to fall into, maybe the default introvert's state, maybe Minnesota Nice, depending on sincere and kind input from others, but eventually get blindsided when our passive aggressive communication styles fails us!<br /><br />I am reminded of Marshall Rosenberg's quote to help not take things personally:<br />http://en.nvcwiki.com/index.php/Quotes<br />"I'm going to show you a technology today which takes insults and criticisms out of the airwaves. With this technology, it will be impossible for you to hear criticisms, harsh remarks, or insults. All you can hear is what all people are ever saying, 'please' and 'thank you'. What used to sound like criticism, judgment, or blame, you will see, are really tragic, suicidal expressions of 'please'." -- Marshall Rosenberg, The Basics of Nonviolent CommunicationAres Olympushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09726811306826601686noreply@blogger.com