tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post8994341372091949229..comments2024-03-26T06:17:49.527-07:00Comments on Had Enough Therapy?: Apocalypse PendingStuart Schneidermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12784043736879991769noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-83815043149575211212016-10-01T06:50:43.999-07:002016-10-01T06:50:43.999-07:00Recruiting Animal @September 30, 2016 at 12:37 PM:...Recruiting Animal @September 30, 2016 at 12:37 PM:<br /><br />"I’d always assumed that etiquette was an expression of being good. If I was acting nice, that meant I was nice. But now I saw that culture and civility were no proof of goodness."<br /><br />I've always seen etiquette and protocol as structures that encourage social order. They allow people to conduct themselves in social settings without needing to be self-conscious... indeed, they facilitate conversation and exchange. So it's about order. To that end, I think there is beauty in order and order in beauty. This kind of stuff is the structure and grease that allows ordinary and/or meaningful exchange to take place.<br /><br />One can be a polite jerk, a savage with all the trappings of a high civilized life, using social customs as a tool for selfish gain, respecting no one, even seeking their demise.<br /><br />Goodness is another thing altogether. It means living the foundation or purpose of social structure: encouraging generosity, kindness, fraternity, etc. Thusly, social structure is a starting point -- a means, not an end. Intentional goodness in one's connection and contribution to their fellow man is an expression of love.<br /><br />One can be polite and not love. Yet if one loves, they can't help but be polite. If they do love and are not polite, they are likely doing it in service of love. The true expression of genuine love conquers all.<br /><br />Nice is trite. The intent of political correctness is niceness, but it's devoid of love, and collapses under the weight of its clumsy bureaucracy and procedure. It's phony, and places a burdensome overhead on social communication that is self-conscious. It blocks love. Love is something the supposed beneficiaries of political correctness truly desire, but they know it's trite and phony, so there's no true gain. In fact, it leads to resentment amongst all.<br /><br />This all reminds me that the Roman nobility and bureaucracy became Christian under Constantine to maintain social status, not because of any spiritual conversion or desire to live a life of Christian love. Polite and refined, no doubt, but lacking the soul of a Christian. Again, phony. But so nice.Ignatius Acton Chesterton OCDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18222603717128565302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-66050258306808893012016-09-30T16:38:34.626-07:002016-09-30T16:38:34.626-07:00I had noticed the interesting point about Germany ...I had noticed the interesting point about Germany in Codevilla's excellent editorial, so thanks for the link.<br /><br />In that context, I was musing today that the Europeans of the last century despised, drove away, and destroyed their Jews -- who were, for the most part, model citizen -- by pushing the pretense that they were subversive, unassimilating, exclusionary, mendacious, even violent, and every other base canard one can imagine.<br />Today's Europe has voluntarily imported a large contingent of pseudo-refugees who are, in fact, subversive, unassimilating, exclusionary, mendacious (think welfare benefits financing jihad), and extremely violent, while frantically pretending that their Muslims are model citizens.<br /><br />Who says God doesn't have a sense of irony.<br />AesopFannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-17729546278930560282016-09-30T12:37:53.206-07:002016-09-30T12:37:53.206-07:00"Germany under Kaiser Wilhelm was arguably th..."Germany under Kaiser Wilhelm was arguably the world’s most polite society. Under Hitler, it became the most murderous."<br /><br />"When Rabbi Hutner was a young rabbinic student in pre-WW2 Europe, one of his fellow students spoke admiringly about the polite and refined manner with which the German people treated him during a recent visit there. <br /><br />"I’d always assumed that etiquette was an expression of being good. If I was acting nice, that meant I was nice. But now I saw that culture and civility were no proof of goodness."<br /><br />http://www.aish.com/sp/pg/Does_Polite_Equal_Good.html<br /><br />Recruiting Animalhttp://recruitinganimal.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078379512095504946.post-59921036390767505762016-09-30T04:54:41.047-07:002016-09-30T04:54:41.047-07:00Sophisticated superstition, with oglers in parlors...Sophisticated superstition, with oglers in parlors waiting for the deep, soothing words of President Obama. No truth, just soothing... decadent, blissful reassurance that the world is not actually as it is.<br /><br />Codevilla is very good. I recommend his piece "America's Ruling Class -- And the Perils of Revolution."<br />http://spectator.org/39326_americas-ruling-class-and-perils-revolution/Ignatius Acton Chesterton OCDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18222603717128565302noreply@blogger.com