As the old Chinese proverb goes: be careful what you wish
for; you might get it.
Nowadays sex is everywhere. It is unavoidable. Images of
every kind of sex act are readily available on line. Young people, having
learned about sex by watching porn, have become incipient porn stars.
Apparently, large numbers of them have at one time or another sent
pornographic images of themselves to… whomever.
For those who have been militating for a more open and
honest relationship to sexuality it’s a dream come true. Or, at least it will
be unless it becomes a nightmare.
Naturally, porn has its defenders. The Daily Mail reports
the case for and against porn watching:
But
while X-rated images and films can help boost your libido, and many report it
improves relationships, there is another side affecting your
health.
From
releasing mood-boosting hormones to triggering addictive tendencies, porn can
have a sinister effect on our brains.
It’s the dopamine, dope.
Watching a lot of porn produces repeated and artificial
surges in dopamine. The effects are not
entirely beneficial:
Both having sex and watching porn causes dopamine, the neurotransmitter responsible for reward and pleasure, to be released.
But
repeatedly causing this surge in dopamine – by regularly watching pornography –
means the brain become desensitised to its effects.
A study
published in JAMA Psychiatry in 2014 found regularly viewing pornography seemed
to dull the response to sexual stimulation over time.
One has suspected this for some time. Part of it sounds like
the behavioral approach to treating phobia. Gradual desensitization through
controlled exposure to the feared object or situation.
Too much porn makes people less sensitive to sexual stimuli.
What happens then? Nothing good. The Daily Mail summarizes:
This
means the brain needs more dopamine in order to feel the same ‘high’, which
causes a person to watch more porn, German researchers found.
And a
2011 study, published in Psychology Today, found that these dopamine spikes
mean porn-users start needing increasingly extreme experiences to become
sexually aroused.
After
being exposed to so many lurid images in films, men have become de-sensitised
and are increasingly unable to become excited by ordinary sexual encounters.
Pornography
is creating a generation of young men who are hopeless in the bedroom, the
report concluded.
Uh, oh. Too much porn can cause sexual malfunctions. This causes people to go into default mode: kinkiness and various other forms of exotic erotic situations... anything to overcome the desensitization.
And porm can also, some research suggests, shrink the brain. To be fair, the researchers
note that those who watch a lot of porn might have born with a predisposition
to addictive behavior.
The newspaper explains how porn can be addictive:
When
porn addicts watch X-rated material, the ‘addiction’ part of the brain lights
up on scans, Cambridge University researchers discovered in 2013.
The
brains of young men who are obsessed by online pornography ‘lit up like
Christmas trees’ upon being shown erotic images, a pioneering study has found.
The
area stimulated – the part of the brain involved in processing reward,
motivation and pleasure – is the same part that is highly active among drug and
alcohol addicts.
A year
later, another study by the same University found sex addicts who watched porn
from an early age had three regions of the brain that were more active than
their counterparts who were not addicted to sex.
The
ventral striatum, dorsal anterior cingulate and amygdala – were active in the
sex addicts – and experts said these are the regions that are also particularly
activated in drug addicts when shown drug stimuli.
The
ventral striatum is involved in processing reward and motivation, whilst the
dorsal anterior cingulate is implicated in anticipating rewards and drug
craving.
The
amygdala is involved in processing the significance of events and emotions.
Sex used to be shrouded in mystery. It used to take place in the dark. It used to be the ultimate private act. Somewhere, someone decided that we cover up sexuality because we are ashamed of it. They insisted that it was a natural human bodily function that we should enjoy openly, honestly and shamelessly.
The advent of readily available internet porn has given them more than they ever dreamed of. They might he noted that the fact that porn is there for the taking does not mean that anyone has to take it. You are free to watch, but you are free not to watch. Just don't think that just because it's free, there is no cost.
It was a utopian fantasy. It was certainly not the only
utopian fantasy that civilization has suffered. For now, like many others, it
seems now to be producing a dystopia.
"Somewhere, someone decided that we cover up sexuality because we are ashamed of it. They insisted that it was a natural human bodily function that we should enjoy openly, honestly and shamelessly."
ReplyDeleteYes, because removal of mystery attacks the sacred. And then it becomes all about pleasure. Who needs to be private about an indifferent public matter? If it's public, it's exhibitionism. If there's one thing our carney media culture is good at, it's exhibitionism, portrayed as a "personal choice," and if you don't approve, you're being "judgmental." So when did personal choices exhibited in full display become things that people could not, should not, judge? That makes no sense. If you put yourself out there and have classroom sessions for college freshmen about using dildos, people will have opinions about that. Do these people really think they'd get a pass? If sex is so special that it needs to become commonplace and de-mystified, is it really special? Sounds like a fluid-swapping transaction to me, a conversation topic like who's going to take out the trash.
"The advent of readily available internet porn has given them more than they ever dreamed of."
Yes, and 95%+ is probably viewed in private. Strange, no?
This article in The Dopamine Project maps all developmental needs into a category called natural addictions:
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However rather than make almost every behavior into some sort of pathology or natural addiction it is better to recognize that the so-called deficiency needs of a small child can only be met via a process of adequate parenting. Physical needs will not be met in the absence of an adequate parent so the natural addictions are more or less natural reactions to the loss of adequate parenting in the former child. It is painful for a child to expect the loss of a parent (it could result in death or developmental disability such as cognitive distortions) so the mind adapts by forming addictions to behaviors (sex, drugs, etc.) or iconic roles (power, money, and social esteem).
What we see in the movies and TV and internet videos are artificially enhanced. Even more so in porn.
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