Not too long ago I saw a psychiatrist on television
explaining that young people should pursue their dreams and passions, even if
and especially if they want to be artists. Since I have been arguing against
such a folly for years now, I quickly took notice.
If they do not, the psychiatrist opined, the world might be
missing out on another Van Gogh and we might miss out on a new Starry Night.
Said psychiatrist failed to remark that Van Gogh cut off his
own ear, point that he ought to have seen as perhaps a reason not to make the
man anyone’s role model. We do not expect that psychiatrists know anything
about artistic creation. And it’s good that they do not. But they ought, as
mental health professionals, know a lot about people who cut off their ears… or
other offending organs.
You might think that it is far more wonderful to be Van Gogh
than to sell insurance, but you should also ask yourself whether you can better
survive the next few years without Starry Night or without insurance.
For my part I think that it is generally very bad advice to
tell young people to pursue their dreams of becoming artists. I can assert with great
confidence that the chances your child will grow up to become Van Gogh are nil. Setting up impossible goals consigns children to failure. One might say, and
one has said, that people can learn from failure, but some people also become
embittered by it.
If a young person believes that since he wants so badly to
be an artist the world owes him the proper recognition, he might very well
persist in his folly, becoming increasingly resentful and increasingly
withdrawn from a world that refuses to recognize his passion.
When professors, and other people who should know better,
encourage talentless students to pursue careers in the arts they are doing them
a disservice. Millions of young people are living in squalor, pursuing an
illusion… because their teachers and television psychiatrists told them to go
for it.
No one has expressed this better than the satirical
publication The Onion:
CHARLOTTESVILLE,
VA—In an effort to help his students develop inaccurate perceptions of their
talents, University of Virginia creative writing professor Alan Erickson told
reporters Monday that he takes the time to provide each and every one of them
with personalized false hope. “Every student is different, and even though
there may be 30 of them per class, I feel it’s important that I make enough
time to sit down with them individually to let them know they have a unique
voice worth pursuing,” said Erickson, explaining that he frequently extends his
office hours and often stays after class to meet with students one-on-one to
ensure they hear individualized, unfounded optimism about their writing and
their prospects within the publishing industry. “It certainly adds a bit to my
workload, but providing specific feedback and encouragement really has a huge
impact on their confidence. Going that extra mile for your students is what
inspires them to follow their dreams.” The professor added that his efforts have
yielded some notable results, asserting that a number of his most deluded
former students have gone on to humiliating, short-lived attempts at writing
careers.
I may be one of the few fathers on Earth to tell his daughter "Don't be a nurse; go be an artist", but I did. She was thinking about being a psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, and I realized I was raising Nurse Ratched.
ReplyDeleteEven so, there is a difference between "Chase your dreams" and "Find a way to make what you love to do feed you." I told Number One Son that it was great for him to want to design games, but that he needed to actually START designing games. He has stayed in Computer Science, but games are now a pastime not a goal.
Little Miss still wants to create art, but she knows that a lot of her time and income will be from welding or metalworking (running molds in a foundry, etc.). She's going to grab for the brass ring, but she knows that starving or mooching off of us won't be a long-term plan.
My brother-in-law is only now retiring (at 70) from his job as a heavy equipment mechanic because he loves the job too much. I love system admin so much that I had to consciously develop other hobbies just to get a break from it. My grandfather went and had the knee surgery that essentially killed him (he died from a post-surgery stroke) because the alternative -- not farming -- wasn't possible.
You don't have to love your job so much that you'd do it for free, but it doesn't hurt. Most people have skills and stuff they like to do, and can find a way to turn it into a good living, with just a bit of work.