We are suckers for charisma. When we choose our leaders we
often opt for charisma in place of humility. We do so even though humble
leaders do the best job.
So explains Margarita Mayo in the Harvard Business Review.
Surely, she is correct, but with a single caveat. If we are talking to a
democratically elected political leader, charisma might very well seduce the
populace. If it does it will provide us with an uncertain, narcissistic, self-involved leader. Think
John F. Kennedy, Bill Clinton and Barack Obama. The case of our current
president remains to be decided.
And yet, if we are thinking of corporate leaders, the
Chairmen and CEOs of corporations are not chosen by popular vote. They are
chosen by a Board of Directors, people who presumably have more understanding
and knowledge of the person’s performance and who have a better knowledge of
what leadership entails.
One notes that in a parliamentary government leaders are
chosen by party representatives. The prime minister of Great Britain is not
elected by the people. In our government, at its inception only a very small
number of property-holding males were allowed to vote. And they voted for
delegates or electors who chose the president. Nowadays, the American president
is not elected democratically, but is selected by the electoral college. In
most cases the vote of the electoral college will correspond to the popular
vote, but this need not be the case. Of course, the United States Senate is
anything but a democratically representative body. Being less beholden to
popular will, it is considered the more deliberative legislative body.
Mayo explains clearly why humble leaders do better:
Humble
leaders improve the performance of a company in the long run because they
create more collaborative environments. They have a balanced view of themselves
– both their virtues and shortcomings – and a strong appreciation of others’
strengths and contributions, while being open to new ideas and feedback. These
“unsung heroes” help their believers to build their self-esteem, go beyond
their expectations, and create a community that channels individual efforts
into an organized group that works for the good of the collective.
Humble leaders induce others to collaborate. They are not in
it for the self-aggrandizement but for the good of the company. They promote
working together and getting along. They are open to new ideas and do not feel
that someone else’s idea will threatened their position. When a leader is
humble people are more likely to share information. Corporate leaders are
rarely charismatic. And if they are charismatic they tend not to do very well.
When a leader shows good character, other members of the
team are inclined to emulate his example. This produces a contagion effect.
Mayo continues:
Another
study showed that a leader’s humility can be contagious: when
leaders behave humbly, followers emulate their modest attitude and behavior. A
study of 161 teams found that employees following humble leaders were
themselves more likely to admit their mistakes and limitations, share the
spotlight by deflecting praise to others, and be open to new ideas, advice, and
feedback.
What is charisma? Mayo defines the term well:
The
Greek word Kharisma means “divine gift,” and charisma is the
quality of extraordinary charm, magnetism, and presence that makes a person
capable of inspiring others with enthusiasm and devotion. German sociologist Max
Weber defined charisma as “of divine origin or as exemplary, and on the basis
of it, the individual concerned is treated as a leader.” Research
evidence on charismatic leadership reveals that charismatic people are
more likely to become endorsed as leaders because of their high energy,
unconventional behavior, and heroic deeds.
Charismatic leaders are in it for the drama. They look like what most people believe leaders look like.
One understands that very few people have direct access to humble leaders. And
one also understands that our conception of leadership is based on what we see
in the media, in the movies and on television. A charismatic leader looks like
the leaders we have seen, not the leaders we have worked with.
Charisma might feel genuine, but in fact, a charismatic
leader has merely presented the right image. He is more show than substance.
The absence of humility, Mayo explains, causes staff members
not to share information and not to be willing to collaborate. With a narcissistic
leader, it’s every-man-for-himself.
Mayo continues that some humble leaders can be charismatic
while some charismatic leaders can work for the good of the group. To take an easy example, a Winston Churchill had the charismatic qualities that were required to lead a nation
through a war. At the same time, Churchill was never in it for himself. He was
called to lead for the great good of his nation. He did not cash in on his
prime ministership.
A humble leader praises others for his success and takes responsibility
for failure. A charismatic leader brags about his success and blames others for
his failures. Some charismatic leaders have groups of flunkies who produce a narrative whereby they have always gotten everything right. These same
flunkies always shift the blame to others when things go wrong. Witness the
recent efforts of former Obama administration officials to blame Obama’s
failure in Syria on congressional Republicans.
Some charismatic leaders, Mayo explains, are in it for the
good of the group. Others are in it for themselves:
Although
the socialized charismatic
leader has the aura of a hero, it is counteracted with low authoritarianism and
a genuine interest in the collective welfare. In contrast, the personalized charismatic
leader’s perceived heroism is coupled with high authoritarianism and high
narcissism. It is when followers are confused and disoriented that they are
more likely to form personalized relationships with a charismatic leader.
Socialized relationships, on the other hand, are established by followers with
a clear set of values who view the charismatic leader as a means to achieve
collective action.
Groups turn toward charismatic leaders when they are in
crisis. That is, when they believe that they need to be rescued. Effectively they are trapped in a narrative. This happens when they do not have the knowledge to understand what is really going on.
When a nation is in severe crisis, people seek out a fictional superhero
to save them. Such would explain the ascent of Barack Obama, a man who never
showed anything like an ability to exercise executive leadership. It does not
really explain why America allowed itself to be seduced by the charismatic John
Kennedy… a leader who, with his administration, produced the crisis that he was
supposed to solve.
Mayo explains:
My
own research shows that our psychological states can also bias our
perceptions of charismatic leaders. High levels of anxiety make us hungry for
charisma. As a result, crises increase not only the search for charismatic
leaders, but also our tendency to perceive charisma
in the leaders we already follow.
It’s not about managing a crisis. It's not about the work required to do so. It’s about believing that
a crisis can be solved by magic:
Economic
and social crises thus become a unique testing ground for charismatic leaders.
They create conditions of distress and uncertainty that appear to be ideal for
the ascent of charismatic figures. Yet at the same time, they also make us more
vulnerable to choosing the wrong leader. Crises and other emotionally laden
events increase our propensity to romanticize the grandiose view of
narcissistic leaders. The paradox is that we may then choose to support the
very leaders who are less likely to bring us success. In a time of crisis, it’s
easy to be seduced by superheroes who could come and “rescue” us, but who
possibly then plunge us into greater peril.
Obviously, Barack Obama was elected in the midst of a
crisis. Did he manage the crisis or did he cover it up, paper it over, without
really dealing with the underlying causes. Our love affair with John Kennedy
gave us Vietnam and the counterculture. Now, we have suffered through eight
years of Barack Obama and we are waiting for the bill to come due.
Last week’s Trump administration attack on Syria was but the
first step toward cleaning up the mess that Obama created in the Middle East.
And that was certainly not the only mess.
Buraq Obama surpassed mere charisma. In Arabic, Buraq means "lightning", and is the name of the mighty steed that bore Muhammad to Jerusalem. Obama is a Lightworker, "that rare kind of attuned being who has the ability to lead us not merely to new foreign policies or health care plans or whatnot, but who can actually help usher in a new way of being on the planet".
ReplyDeletehttp://m.sfgate.com/entertainment/morford/article/Is-Obama-an-enlightened-being-Spiritual-wise-2544395.php
Sort of like Starhawk, but so much more. :-D
Mayo's right; there's definitely a market segment for that kind of bulls****.
Humility doesn't sell very well on the Glowing Box. Humility doesn't get ratings.
ReplyDeleteI'd love to know if a truly humble person ever ... tweets. The existence, content and cadence of Twitter "content" seems to perfectly capture the full depth of our sound bite age.
Anyone relate to Caitlyn Jenner as a humble leader?
I believe it was Churchill who declared that his experience was that modest, read humble, people usually had much to be modest about.
ReplyDeleteLike Dwight Eisenhower...
ReplyDeleteThere was little humility in Ike who gained my first presidential vote. 5-stars or 2-stars, humble generals are few if not non-existent. Ike didn't articulate his personna to the public as communications were muted the - no net and limited TV. Newspapers made the man but you can be sure, Ike was no mouse in the interactions among the Allied commanders particularly the Brits and that modest general, de Gaulle.
ReplyDeleteI'm still a little confused about what charisma is. That is in part it seems to include "extreme confidence", so when Trump says "Only I can fix it", is that charisma? And its certainly arrogant, and the opposite of humility.
ReplyDeleteOTOH, they say Trump has a very score on "disagreeableness" which is something most politicians are not allowed to have, but people see that as "truth telling", saying what everyone else is thinking, but don't feel safe to say aloud because it is not politically correct.
And Winston Churchill probably also would be scored high on disagreeableness, yet in a time of war, his disagreeable was also an act of truth-telling when he tried to warn the world about Hitler, but his warnings were disregarded too long. Yet after WW2 ended, he was soundly rejected, so we could say in a war time people want a different sort of leader.
I'd consider that different times call for different strengths, and courage and humility don't go together well. If you're building up something to be greater than it was, you maybe need humility. But if you're trying to tear down something that is less than it should be, you need courage, and hope those you're standing up to also have courage to stand up to you in a honest fight.