This weekend’s big read long form story is a New York
Times article about why there aren’t more women CEOs. Written by Susan Chira it
complains and complains and complains about the injustice of it all.
Chira has mostly interviewed women who have not quite made
it to the top and this opens her to the suggestion that her subjects are simply
sore losers. On the other hand, being number two or being an important
executive in a corporation is a significant achievement. Why diminish it by
complaining about not having risen higher?
In itself, the complaints might be the reason why more women
aren’t CEOs. They might be so conscious of the obstacles to their advancement that
they are less focused on the task at hand. Thank you, Sheryl Sandberg, for
teaching women how to fight against injustice. But, however successful Sandberg
is, being a fighter against injustice will not look good on your résumé.
There are a few bottom line points we can make here, in no
particular order.
First, nothing about anyone’s corporate charter says that
company performance is judged by how many women in has in which positions. We
do not know what happens in a company when there are more or fewer women in
which positions. If the government imposes gender equity requirements, this
might persuade the non-women on the team that the women who succeeded did not
earn their way. Thus, gender diversity quotas can breed resentment and make
cooperation more difficult.
Second, if having a woman executive improves profitability,
then the marketplace will naturally produce more female executives. Chira and
her sources suggest over and over again that women leaders are better than men.
This might be true. But it might not be true. Since Chira’s sources were women
who were passed over for promotion, they might have cherry- picked the facts
that make their grievances look more just.
Third, the article largely ignores the cost of motherhood.
It barely hints at the fact that when women become mothers they often choose to spend
more time with their children and less time on the job. You might think that it’s
inconsequential. The chances are that it isn’t. If you take Anne-Marie
Slaughter’s experience seriously, it is extremely difficult to be a good mother
and to work your way up a status hierarchy. Given the choice, most women
will choose as Slaughter did and opt for their children.
Fourth, most women simply do not want to advance up the
corporate hierarchy. One recalls the basic Darwinian principle, namely that a more
powerful man becomes more attractive to women while a more powerful woman becomes
less attractive to men. Most women know this and choose their careers accordingly.
It is not sexist. It is rational. Of course, the rule has exceptions, but for
the most part it seems clearly to be true. Chira mentions one woman who said
that in order to stay on the CEO path she would have had to uproot and take a
job abroad. When the opportunity arose she turned it down… perhaps for reasons
that had to do with family. This was her choice. We should respect it for as
much. It must have contributed to her failure to become CEO.
Fifth, the article scrupulously ignores the possibility that
men and women are differently constructed, both in terms of physical strength
and in terms of the mental ability to respond effectively to stress. Chira ignores
the facts, but this blog has not. Links here and here. Chira suggests that our
culture does not teach women to be assertive and to lean in. But theynshe
suggests that when women become assertive they provoke negative and even
hostile reactions. It might be that men are sexist, but it also might be that
when you are physically weaker your assertion of strength will be seen as a
bluff. And it will also be seen, not as a gesture of self-assertion, but as a
gesture of hostility. Chira also
suggests that women are less competitive, but, for all she or anyone else
knows, this too is part of a woman’s DNA. When women are more competitive they
are less likely to survive in a world inhabited by men who are constitutionally
stronger. This does not mean that some few women might have the competitiveness
gene, but it means that such women will be the exception, not the rule.
Sixth, the constant discussion over sexual harassment has
made it that men are often wary of taking meetings alone with women or of
traveling alone on business with them. When women become a threat to their
male mentors, this does not enhance their career opportunities.
Seventh, Chira notes clearly that the higher executive ranks
are mostly a male domain, even a male locker room. The presence of women upsets
the dynamic and the male bonding. You may think that this is trivial, but if
you have never engaged in it, how do you know? It means that men who behave and speak in a certain way when women are not present will be
obliged to change the way they function when women are present. One suspects that
when women are in the company of other women they do not talk about men as they
would if there were males present. Moreover, now that the night riders of the
thought police have descended on the culture what man would risk his livelihood
on the chance that he might, in the presence of a woman, say something that is
sexist, or, God forbid, inappropriate? Feminists cheer when a powerful man is
brought low by charges of sexual harassment or sexism, but, even assuming that
it is a just result, the people who will pay for this might very well be other women—who
will no longer be included in meetings or trips.
Eighth, Chira and her interviewees completely ignore the emulation
factor. Leaders do not just lead by drawing up plans and by motivating their
teams. They set an example; they lead by example. Every study of executive
leadership makes this point, over and over again. If a manager sets an example of good conduct, company loyalty and office decorum, his staff will, almost
unconsciously, follow his lead. He will not have to tell them. Showing will
suffice. This works because all people want to improve themselves; they want to
better themselves. They do so by emulating their betters, because they want
ultimately to be like their betters.
How many young men do you know who want to grow up to become
like Hillary Clinton? By the way, how many women do you know who would like to
be just like Hillary?
Case closed.
Why isn't Susan Chita a CEO? It's a very valid question, if she's so fired up about the issue.
ReplyDelete"Chira has mostly interviewed women who have not quite made it to the top..."
ReplyDeletePerhaps the Peter Principle intervened.
TW,
ReplyDelete"Perhaps the Peter Principle intervened." very possibly true and quite funny!
Could it be, (I'm just speculating here, just blue-skying a thought) that men and women are...different in their wants and desires?
ReplyDeleteI don't think the Emulation argument really works, unless one believe that all (or virtually all) female executives are bad people along the lines of Hillary Clinton.
ReplyDeleteTop men in all fields work harder, longer, sleep little. Trump. 3 or 4 hours?!
ReplyDeleteSuccess is their only raison d'etre. An extreme example of what all men deal with.
"Women are Life. Men its servants." -- Joseph Campbell
Simply by being, a woman has a raison d'être. If she and (actual or potential) offspring are sustained well & secure, the rest is gravy.
No male angst about "What am I good for?" - which plagued me most of my life.
Many women are brilliant high-achievers. Many more, perhaps most, extremely competent in their professions and work. I respect admire acknowledge that.
But they're also the Font of Life. Men are mere sperm donors. Huge difference. IMHO - Rich Lara