If you haven’t read up on the history of psychoanalysis and,
in particular, Jacques Lacan, the most influential Freudian since Freud, you
will probably not find this story especially compelling. If you want to get up
to speed you should read my book The LastPsychoanalyst. Right away.
Obviously, the topics in my book and in the history of
psychoanalysis are somewhat difficult. And yet, if you do not know something
about intellectual history you will never really understand what is going on,
for example, in universities. It’s nice to observe the effects of political
correctness. If you don’t know the cause, you will be reduced to empty denunciations
but no counterarguments.
Anyway, today’s topic concerns a woman named Catherine
Millot. It was well enough known at the time, that she was Lacan’s last
mistress. From 1972 to 1981 she had an affair with the famed psychoanalyst. All
the while she was his patient.
In France, where people knew of the transgression, no one
really paid it very much attention. Lacan had understood that Freud was trying to
transform the culture, to substitute an ethic of desire for an ethic of duty
and work. Since, he believed that desire could only exist when people were
breaking the rules, his behavior was consistent with his theories… which, after
all, was exactly what it was supposed to be.
One might also refer to a somewhat earlier love affair
conducted by New York analyst Horace Frink with a patient named Angelika Bijur.
I recounted the story in my book and would make special note of the fact that
Frink’s analyst was Freud himself.
Besides, as I explained in some detail, Lacan placed himself
beyond morality. He might have begun by breaking the rules, but he aimed at a
condition of amorality, where the rules did not apply to him.
Naturally, psychoanalysts, especially the French variety,
are horrified at the notion that anyone would try to grasp the impenetrable
obscurities of the theory by referring to the man, himself. Good Platonists
that they are, they spend their time gazing directly at the pure Ideas. This
has rendered no small number of them blind to reality and morality.
In the first place, psychoanalysis is a practice, not a
theoretical parlor game. Second, to be perfectly truthful, the number of people
who really understand Lacan’s theories in the world today can be counted on two
hands... if that. Most people join the cult because they love the man himself. They can
toss around arcane formulae that they do not understand, but they do know that the meaning of the theories was the man himself. Ignore him and
you have missed the point completely.
Strictly speaking, psychoanalysis is not going to make
anyone get better. In France, in particular, it has never claimed to cure
anything, to treat anything or to relieve human suffering. Lacan himself said that the clinical practice of psychoanalysis was a scam and that if anyone ever got better in analysis it was a fortuitous accident. Even in the hands of
an Adam Phillips, it rejects normality as its goal.
If you were to ask what is its treatment goal, the answer
lies in the person of a man like Lacan.
Those who have read my book will understand this. Those who
have not, will not.
I recall a conversation I had with a friend in Paris in
1980. I noted to him that Lacan was looking seriously depressed. To that my friend,
who was also a personal friend of Lacan, replied, with an air of great empathy:
“His mistress just broke up with him. He has had his last woman.” Lacan was 79
at the time.
Anyway, Catherine Millot has just written a slim volume called
Life with Lacan about her love affair
with her psychoanalyst. In it she explains that she had consciously wanted to
be Lacan’s “last woman.”
The book was recently reviewed in Le Monde, the prestigious French newspaper, by Elisabeth Roudinesco, the quasi-official
biographer and historian of French psychoanalysis. I would mention that
Roudinesco is a notable apologist for Lacan.
I have translated most of the review for your interest, not
only to present some of Millot’s ideas, but also to show how the French cult
around psychoanalysis functions. I will note, in passing, that the translation
feels slightly awkward at times. In part this was because I did it in haste— blame
the blogosphere—but in part it is because Roudinesco’s French, to my eye, is clunky.
I have tried to smooth it out in places, but still….
Since Roudinesco is an excellent writer, I cannot imagine
why she would have written a review that feels slapped together and difficult
to read. I can only assume that she was trying to ensure that people do not read the book. If she had denounced it vigorously, in powerful prose, she
would have drawn people to read it. By dismissing it as old news she was
telling people that they should not waste their time.
One notes that within the cult of French psychoanalysis,
people read what they are told to read and do not read what they are told not
to read. If you think that American college students are having their minds
turned into Jello, as Camille Paglia says, you should take some time to look
into the intellectually stifling world of psychoanalysis. They make the
indoctrination mills called American universities look amateurish.
Anyway, Roudinesco:
Writer
and psychoanalyst, Catherine Millot offers a raw account of her love affair
with Jacques Lacan—the man who, incidentally was her analyst throughout her
affair-- from 1972 to 1981.
That is
to say, she accompanied Lacan through the last years of his life, from the
moment he gave his dizzying seminar on female mystics (entitled Encore) through the time when he became
mute and started fabricating Borromean knots, therein to seek the logical key
to madness.
Roudinesco notes that Millot’s portrait corresponds well to
what we already know about Lacan. It is consistent with the portrait I
presented in my book and the one that Roudinsco herself presented in several
volumes.
She is doing so in order to tell people that they need not
read Millot’s book:
Writing
about this man who she knew so well Millot paints a portrait that does not
contradict what we already know about him. Extravagant and libertine,
fascinated by the Catholic Church, trying to meet with the pope, in love with
Baroque Rome, armed with an American pistol to fight off attackers, Lacan
enjoyed the company of bishops and cardinals.
Importantly, as I remarked in my book, Lacan believed in
breaking rules. Having an affair with a patient certainly counts.
But Roudinesco recounts a conversation Lacan had with a
transsexual man in a patient presentation. She taxes Lacan with rudeness—
effectively, rudeness was Lacan’s signature—and explains how the presentation affected
Millot.
As a
psychoanalyst Lacan was certainly breaking the treatment rules, and during his
famous patient presentations at the Hospital of Sainte-Anne in Paris, he did
not hesitate to be rude to the patients.
[Millot
wrote:]
Thus,
speaking to a transsexual who insisted that he was a woman, Lacan kept telling
him, during the interview, that he was a man… whether he liked it or not, and
that no operation would make him a woman. In the end, Lacan called him: a poor
sod.
Astonished
by this scene, Catherine Millot became interested herself in transsexualism and
concluded that Lacan was speaking as he was in order to signify that the human
condition could adopt a miserable face.
Two notes here. Those who would like to read a transcript of
one of the case presentations can refer to the only one that has ever been
published. Lacan allowed me to put it in my book, Returning to Freud.
While it is true that Lacan practiced what Janet Malcolm
called “therapeutic rudeness,” he was sympathetic to the schizophrenic whose
interview I translated for my book. For the record, Malcolm introduced the
notion of Lacan's rudeness in a New York Times review of my book Jacques Lacan: The Death of an Intellectual Hero.
As for Lacan as a lover, the picture Millot presents is
anything but flattering. Those who would like another unflattering portrait of the
psychoanalyst as a pathetic lover should read Philippe Sollers’ book Femmes or Women. Lacan is presented as a character called Fals. Curiously,
Sollers presents the notorious ladies’ man as weak and pathetic, not like a
dashing lothario.
This also suggests that Lacan had fully overcome shame. Being
a good pupil herself, Millot has shown that she has overcome her own sense of shame. She wrote an account of her love affair.
Roudinesco writes:
Unable
to separate from any woman, Lacan demanded of each of his mistresses complete
submission to unusual rituals: travel as a threesome, sharing the same
places, frequenting insufferable people (like Armand Petitjean, a
collaborationist writer.)
In
short, this strikingly and boundlessly baroque Lacan wanted to live his life
as he pleased. He considered that: “women always contained a scourge.”
For the record, collaborationist refers to those who
collaborated with the Nazis when France was occupied during World War II.
Roudinesco continues:
Nevertheless,
Catherine Millot always refused to participate in his manias. She loved Lacan
and he returned her love. She wanted to be “his last woman” fact that
elicited in her predecessor (madame T) a frightening jealousy. This latter
treated her like a rival and declared that she was “ descended from an ape.”
About which Millot wrote that “she easily recognized herself in the
description because she had long arms and a marked prognathism.
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Catherine
Millot knew that her attachment resembled a mystical love:
I
had the feeling that I had grasped Lacan’s being from the inside. [I was}
convinced that he knew me completely and absolutely. A part of my being had
been given over to him; he had become its guardian.
She
understood that her lover, who was forty-three years older than her, was
declining before her eyes. Thus, when Lacan wanted to have a child with her,
she decided to end her treatment and her liaison:
For
me I felt that something had been torn away from me. For him it was an
earthquake.
Here we
have a life story cleverly written, in a Harlequin style, by a woman who now is
the same age Lacan was when she met him in Italy, in the heart of the “five
lands” (Cinque Terre) of the Ligurienne Coast.
Today the place has been declared by Unesco as a world historical site. A
tawny Lacan.
Psychoanalysts like to agonize over the question of the end
of analysis. Surely, the termination of Millot’s analysis, at a moment when a
79-year-old man told her he wanted to have a child with her… deserves to be
counted as an especially poignant example. It will surely elicit a great deal
of mindless theoretical lucubration from the Lacanians.
The last sentence is peculiar: Un Lacan couleur fauve. Make of it what you will.