Friday, July 8, 2011


4 comments:

The Ghost said...

wow ...

impressive post sir ... I applaud your ability to drill down to the real human experience and dissect some of the motives behind this same sex marriage debate ...

I'm curious if there is much data on sexless or low sex gay male couples ? In other words relationships formed purely for love or companionship with sex being a minor factor.

Stuart Schneiderman said...

Interesting thought... I don't know of any research, but I suspect that if Dan Savage et al. feel a need to go outside their "marriages" for various forms of sexual pleasure, then that might suggest that their "marriages" are not as sexually fulfilling as they would wish.

If "lesbian bed death" does happen, then the difference would be the lesbians have a much lower tendency to go outside of their "marriages" or relationships to get their kink on.

Anonymous said...

One of your best posts ever. The feminist expectation, nay the demand, that women have exactly the same sexual behavior and needs as men has been a pernicious infection in our society. Men and women are both harmed thereby, though in different ways.

Please keep fighting the good fight.

--Lisa

Stuart Schneiderman said...

Will do.